You can do it! How to get through the mid-year crisis

Honest to goodness, this year has gone by so fast (she says every year). I do think, though, that 2019 has been pretty good in regards to productivity. I’ve been consistently active on this blog, if you haven’t noticed already, and I’ve been super excited about it. I’m going to work on customizing and reorganizing Gallantly, gal a bit, as well, so look forward to some changes! I also haven’t felt so fit and healthy as I have this year. I don’t know if I’m quite on track with my goals and resolution, to be honest, but I feel pretty good all things considered. Now for those who are suffering through a mid-year crisis (“How is the year halfway over already?! I didn’t get anything done!”), let me help you guys get through this troubling time.

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Here are my tips on living the life you want and improving yourself. I want to help you get over the Wednesday of the week. As in… July is like the Wednesday if the whole year is thought of as a week (accept my genius metaphor please).

The mid-year is the time when there are six hurdles still before the finish line but you're too busy freaking out over the six hurdles you left behind. Click To Tweet

Let’s all take a breath and relax–it’s a good period to reflect and to trudge on. Let’s also be realistic: Halfway over means there’s still half that same amount of time left. We’re too busy with a quarter-life crisis to also fall into the mid-year crisis!

Tips on making it through the mid-year crisis

Reflect on your accomplishments

Don’t fret! You are probably hitting yourself mentally right now, thinking, “Ugh, I got nothing done yet!” Your resolutions are down the garbage disposal and you’re ready to turn that switch on. But hold on! The year is not even over yet!

You’re definitely being way too hard on yourself. You really think you sat on your bum throughout those six months and did absolutely nothing? People are always doing something to improve themselves, so get out that pen and paper and start writing a nice, long list on all the things you did do this year! What have you accomplished? You may think you did not do enough, but you need to celebrate the little victories, too.

Write down everything you did during the first half that makes you proud, and bathe in all that glory.

Refocus your goals for the rest of the year

After you looked back on your accomplishments thus far, you can now look toward the future, toward the remaining six months of the year. It’s time to refocus your goals. What haven’t you accomplished yet that you still want to accomplish before the New Year’s ball drops? Shove your mid-year crisis away. There’s no time for that! Now put on your concentration face because you still have goals to accomplish.

Write the list of accomplishments you want to achieve in the remainder of the year. Even if they’re the same as they were in the beginning, rewrite them to reground yourself and refocus. If they have changed a bit or are entirely different, if you have new ones you want to add, whatever the case is, write that list anyway and put on your game face because the whistle has yet to blow.

Visualize the coming months and where you want to be at the end

After writing that list of things you still want to get done before the year is actually over, you need to put into practice visualization and manifestation. Close your eyes and visualize yourself getting everything done within those next months. Visualize yourself where you want to be at the end of those months.

You’ll feel more motivated and calm manifesting what you want for the next half of the year than panicking and regretting the last half of the year. Those negative feelings won’t help you! They will not get you anywhere!

Recharge your positivity as you face forward because that’s where the finish line is. It’s not behind you.

Have a mid-year celebration with friends!

A party isn’t only permissible at the end of the year. Why not do a mid-year party to celebrate getting halfway through this year? Turn it into something you can get excited about–redefine it as a milestone. Gather up your friends to wallow together, get excited about the future, or have too much fun to focus on the mid-year crisis at all! It’s great to spend time with others so you can remember that everyone’s in the same boat. Your friends are likely as shocked as you are that half a year went by already.

Being with friends can really brighten up your day and mood. Socialize and enjoy life! That’s what life is really about–enjoying it as much as you can.

Keep it together and don’t give up!

In the end, it is important to never give up. Do not give up on this year to look forward to the next year already–that’s a waste of the next six months. Also, remember what I said in my New Year’s Resolutions post? You can’t think of it as the starting line–you have to start in advance. These aren’t concrete lines and time is a construct; don’t let them decide when you’ll start trying and when you’ll stop. You must always try. You must never stop.

If you’re feeling defeated already, here’s my virtual slap in the face. Let me shake your shoulders (with love) as I scream (with love), “Pull yourself together, man! Do not give up yet! Now get to it!” Proceeds to slap butt like coaches do to their players on the field.

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Really and truly shake off that panicky feeling that comes with thinking so much time has passed and you made no progress in life. Life as a whole is a journey. It isn’t a race. There are no deadlines. It’s all about you and how much you want to accomplish something and whether you’ll give up on it in the end.

Yes, my heart does fall a bit now that the year is halfway over. I still feel a bit behind on life, but I also feel like I am being pushed from behind and all I can do is keep my legs moving so I don’t fall over. Movement is key. Keep on moving and then let that momentum carry you forward. Once you stop moving, you will fall backwards. And that is scarier than any mid-year crisis. Stay strong!


gallantly gal



  1. Bry Jaimea

    July 4, 2018 at 11:06 am

    I feel like I somewhat let the first half of the year get the best of me, but at the same time since 1 July I’ve been too busy running towards my goals, collecting points and stars along the way, to have a chance to even look back at what I left behind. It’s a great feeling!
    Speaking of great, I really love this post! It’s so important to stay focused on where we want to be rather than where we’ve been! After all, we may have lost 6 months, but we’ve still got another ahead of us and who knows what can happen if we put our energy into it!

    1. gallantly gal

      July 4, 2018 at 6:32 pm

      I feel like I’ve been wading through the first half and am tired but trying to keep going despite not seeing a single hint of an island nearby! A wade actually sounds good right now because it’s terribly hot and humid over here right now. I’m glad to hear you’re running towards your goals! I know you’ve heard some good news recently so there’s that! I’m also getting back to hustling.
      Thank you so much 😀

  2. Christy B

    July 4, 2018 at 11:56 am

    I think it’s genius to take stock of ourselves in the middle of the year ⭐ Why do we typically only do so in December/January? These are great ideas for being our best selves, my friend. And I loved the anticipation over this post after our Instagram and WordPress discussions 😉

    1. gallantly gal

      July 4, 2018 at 6:33 pm

      Thank you so much for reading and for your kind words 😀 haha I had fun raising that anticipation!!

  3. Nat

    July 4, 2018 at 5:29 pm

    Omg, the accomplishments thing. I was literally whining about that in my latest post lol. Or rather, choosing to think about stuff I failed at on one given day. 😐

    1. gallantly gal

      July 4, 2018 at 6:34 pm

      LOL we’ve all been there. My first reaction was, “Whoa, half the year is gone? I got nothing done lulz,” and then had to be like, “NO, NO ANNIE. You did some stuff!!!” xD

  4. Tyese

    July 14, 2018 at 3:29 pm

    I like what you said about July being the Wednesday of the entire year. LOL! So true! I love to party this time of year as a celebration. It is no coincidence my birthday is June 29th, right in the middle of the year! It has always been a great time for reflection, refocusing and renewing myself for the year. Thanks for the reminder!

    1. gallantly gal

      July 14, 2018 at 3:35 pm

      Haha thank you!!! Finally someone appreciates my GENIUS analogy xDDD
      That is really perfect that your birthday is smack in the middle of the year. Even more excuse to celebrate! Thank you for reading 🙂 I really appreciate your comment, and happy belated birthday!

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